Best way to convince a guy you love

I thought men were hard to reach, always concerned about how they felt about me.
The worst part is that I could never let a man come and speak to me.
I realized that the things in my life were not what I wanted them to be.
I was tired, frustrated, safe, and unhappy. What I wanted to be was for a man to have me.
 I needed the perfect man in my life to give me passion and care.
I decided to act and make significant changes in my life. I went out and looked for ways to make it happen.